When youre NOT getting on with your eachother, when youve been arguing about the ironing or the washing up or the way you looked at her or what you want to watch on tv or how you raised your voice about the way you feel about her best mate or whatever ways you arent seeing eye to eye, REMEMBER why youve chose to be together or the way you used to speak to each other or how everything from the door handle to the melted candle reminds you of her how you CAN be, how you DO laugh, how you WILL go places that open your eyes and make you realise that its not the seeing or the hearing or the touching that counts but the feeling that you know youre both capable of making eachother feel before lifes mundane tasks got involved, sometimes life will get in the way of what you want and you will have to put needs before desires but make sure you protect that initial feeling that you showed eachother safe from it.. and if all else fails just "KEEP CALM AND CARRY ON".
